It sounds like he really wants one. I posted this on another forum and thought it could be usefull here too. However, if you wash the area thoroughly, your partner may decide to perform an anal-oral on you. I know half or more of my trouble is relaxing the anus. Keep going until you can fit the large one. OrisonJul 27, Or is that a separate type of pleasure unto its own?
Pause your fingers and bite down on them with your anus.
This also helps loosen the anal muscles. RooRshackDec 12, Discussion in ' Oral and Anal Sex ' started by shankinbroJul 18, When they are not, it is much easier to enter. Another thing that really loosens the anal muscles is the tongue.